Hi, I'm Coach K, 


"Helping our Queer Community Unlock potential and walk in their purpose..."

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    Kalyela Josephs (she/her) best known as Coach Kay. She is a Spiritual Life Coach who guides the LGBTQ community to experience love and peace with their spirituality and sexuality. She is considered a “Soulspeaker'' helping LGBTQ+ individuals heal limiting beliefs so they can live in their truth.

    Through first-hand experience, she knows the journey and challenges that a Queer person faces. For over 25 years as a lesbian, she struggled with religious trauma, lack of family acceptance, and internalized homophobia. As she encountered a spiritual awakening she found peace and inner knowing that being LGBTQ is a beautiful divine gift. Her soul purpose is to help you receive the same so that you can live a life of purpose, love, and freedom.

    Kalyela resides in Charlotte, North Carolina where in her free time she loves to read, spend time with her family and her fur baby.

Her life’s mantra, “Live Life with Purpose."


Why work with Coach kay?

    Are you tired of sleepless nights? What about questioning if God loves and accepts you as an LGBTQ person? In this constant fight, there is no energy for you to create the life you want to experience. Coach Kay guides you through a step-by-step process to help you heal and become the person you desire to be. 

Where you are Right now

Where you want to be

  • Disconnected from your Life's Purpose

  • Conflict with Spirituality and Sexuality

  • Inability to "Come Out"

  • Not feeling worthy of Love

  • Abandoned by family and friends

  • Closeted Relationships

  • Lack of Confidence in the workplace

  • Feeling a Physical, Emotional, Mental, and Spiritual Imbalance

  • In Harmony with God

  • Live in your Truth

  • Come out with Courage

  • Silence the inner conflict

  • Self-Love & Empowerment 

  • Enjoying Affirming Relationships

  • Physically, Emotionally, Mentally, and Spiritually Whole

  • Sharing your purpose with the world

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Life-Changing Stories

"I struggled with my faith and being a lesbian. I didn't want to come out to my family and friends in fear of losing them. Working with Coach Kay helped me to understand the real barrier was a false belief that God didn't accept me, resulting in me not accepting myself. Through her coaching, I was able to rid of old beliefs that weren't a reflection of who I am. I was able to come out to my family and friends, now freely living in my truth..."


"As a bisexual man, my biggest challenge was living outside of what society says how I am supposed to experience relationships. Internally, this made me feel that I always had to "pick a team". Coach Kay help me to realize that was untrue and I can love whomever I wish unconditionally. She helped me move past societal pressures and really take ownership of what I want to experience in my life. Now, I am able to confidently be with whomever I choose without feeling the need to justify my love."



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